This Volunteers’ Week, we’re sharing the stories of people whose lives have been impacted by participating in voluntary service. Today, we’re hearing from Kay, a volunteer at Caritas St Joseph’s, our lifelong learning centre for adults with intellectual disabilities.
I first discovered Caritas St Joseph’s (CSJ) about 15 years ago, while looking for a day centre for my daughter Natalie. Caritas St Joseph’s was highly recommended by one of Natalie’s former teachers, and I can see why: it’s a unique place centred around core principles of love, care, kindness and commitment, all of which are shown by the wonderful staff who work there. It really feels like a family.
Having seen Natalie blossom as a student at CSJ, I thought it right to contribute to the centre’s work by sharing my own knowledge and experience, so 14 years ago I began volunteering there once a week.
I started by assisting at Reception, which helped me to learn about the students and their lives, forming strong relationships with both them and staff. A year later, I moved into the ‘Stage in Making’ class, helping students to make props, as well as supporting ‘Music Recording’ sessions where students prepared a show to perform at the end of term. I have also learned British Sign Language, and enjoy practising with Natalie at home.
I have formed many meaningful friendships with students during my years at CSJ. I became very good friends with Francis, the first student I ever met back when I initially came to view the centre. He became a close family friend, sharing my husband and daughter’s interest in football. Francis passed away last year, and we miss him very much.
Volunteering at CSJ is also immensely rewarding. One student I have worked with over the past 10 years used to only be able to use one hand; now, he has made incredible progress and can use both hands. I also bonded with another student, who is a non-verbal wheelchair user; after many months of coming to my music class, he gave me a big smile and put his hand out to say hello. Moments like these are the reason I volunteer at Caritas St Joseph’s.
My faith strengthens me in my volunteering, and enables me to support the students at Caritas St Joseph’s. Helping at the centre is a pleasure, a privilege and an honour. I enjoy every minute, from the moment I walk through the front door.
Caritas St Joseph’s helps people with intellectual disabilities to share their gifts and participate in their communities and the life of the Church. Their lifelong learning centre in Hendon offers a variety of courses to over 200 students, ranging from accredited creative arts programmes to practical skills for living independently. The team also run extensive outreach activities across the Diocese of Westminster.
Feeling inspired? Browse volunteering opportunities here, or support Caritas St Joseph’s by donating or volunteering.
